What Are You Really Looking For?
If you’ve found yourself here, first, let me say: welcome. I’m so glad you’re here. Maybe you stumbled across this blog while scrolling, or maybe you were searching for something specific—a glimmer of hope, a sign that you’re not alone, or just some answers to questions you’ve carried for a long time. Whatever brought you here, you’re in the right place.
Let’s dive into what people who visit this space are often searching for. My guess is, if you’re here, a lot of this might resonate with you.
1. You Want Support and Validation
Let’s be real: the journey as an adoptee or someone touched by adoption isn’t always easy. You’ve likely felt the sting of rejection, the weight of identity struggles, or maybe the quiet ache of grief that no one seems to talk about.
You’re not looking for someone to fix everything—you’re looking for someone who understands. Someone who has been there or who can say, “I see you. I hear you. You’re not alone.” That’s exactly why I created this space: to let you know you are not walking this path by yourself.
2. You’re Seeking Practical Guidance
The emotional rollercoaster of being an adoptee or dealing with adoption-related challenges can feel overwhelming. Maybe you’ve tried to deal with triggers on your own or wrestle with feelings of unworthiness.
You’re looking for tools that actually work. Maybe it’s through mindfulness techniques, somatic practices, or simple daily actions to reclaim your peace of mind. If that’s what you’re after, you’re in luck—this space is all about actionable steps you can take today to feel better and stronger.
3. You’re Ready for Personal Growth
If you’ve reached this point, you might be ready to start exploring the deeper layers of yourself. Who are you, beyond the labels and the stories you’ve carried? What’s holding you back, and what would it feel like to finally let it go?
You’re probably drawn to resources that help you uncover these answers. That’s why I offer things like journals, courses, and guides designed specifically for adoptees. Growth is never easy, but it’s always worth it—and having the right tools can make all the difference.
4. You Long for a Sense of Community
Healing can feel isolating. Maybe you’ve thought, “No one else feels this way” or “I’m the only one struggling with this.” Let me tell you: you are not alone.
That’s why I created spaces like the Adoptees Healing Hub. It’s a safe place to connect with others who truly understand what you’re going through. Because sometimes, just knowing there are others who “get it” can be a powerful step toward healing.
5. You’re Looking for Inspiration and Hope
Sometimes, when we’re in the thick of it, it’s hard to imagine life feeling lighter. But you’re here because you want to believe things can get better. You’re searching for stories, encouragement, or even just a spark of hope to remind you that healing is possible.
Let me be the one to tell you: it is possible. I’ve seen it in my own life and in the lives of the adoptees I work with. You are capable of so much more than you realize.
6. You Value Expertise and Credibility
You’re not just looking for someone to tell you to “just think positively” or “get over it.” You’re looking for someone who understands the science behind the struggles—someone who can blend the latest neuroscience with trauma-informed practices and mindfulness techniques.
That’s where my training comes in. From Havening to breathwork to meditation, I’ve spent years learning how to help people just like you move from surviving to thriving. And I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
So, What Does All This Boil Down To?
If you’re here, you’re looking for freedom. Freedom from the pain, the negative patterns, and the emotional barriers that have been holding you back. You’re searching for a way to build trust in yourself and others, to feel worthy, and to finally create a life you love.
And let me tell you: you can have that freedom. It starts with taking one small step—whether it’s reading a blog, downloading a guide, or joining a community. I’m here to walk with you as you take that journey, one step at a time.
So, here’s my invitation: explore this space. Read, reflect, and, when you’re ready, reach out. Let’s discover what’s possible for you together.